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Jun 20, 2023

In this episode I talk with Relationship Therapist and Coach Dan Anear about conflict in relationships and specifically, the role our emotions play in conflict. For decades the conventional wisdom was “leave your emotions” at the door. Dan would like to challenge that. He also brings in his work with Terry Real’s Relational Life Institute, and reminds us that so often “The Thing is not The Thing”: that our conflicts are deeper than they appear.


This show, Ten Thousand Heroes, is about addressing conflict and difference with unconditional love. 

How would we treat each other if we assumed every person we met was a hero in disguise?

How would our society and culture change if we did that?


No matter how complex and messy things get: The only way out is through.


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