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Nov 4, 2023

Crystal Beasley is a trip. She’s a high priestess of the heart and listening to her journey is the auditory equivalent of getting tickled (for me) at least.


At one point she tells me she is here to protect the place of women.

Then she mentions a finishing school she runs, to turn Men into Gentlemen.

And then she reveals the How: Teaching them to Ask for what they Need.


It seems simple, but every day I run into it.

Sometimes with myself, sometimes with a colleague, sometimes with a daughter.


How much time could we save,

Looping narratives could we cut short, and

Sleep could we gain?


Just by knowing what we Need, and asking for it?


Resources Cris mentioned:

Link to her film on Charles and Diana (6m):

Her website with a lot of different projects and resources:

Her course “Holy Hell Yes - Navigate Massive Change without Losing Your Shiz”:


She actually made a discount code just for you:

“Use code 10KH for 50% off until Jan 31st”


And, for more about the mystery school, which she can’t post online, please email



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